January 2022

Just a couple of days until the end of January and it’s been quite a year already! 😂 I managed to take a week or so off at the beginning of the month which was good but of course didn’t seem long enough.

It’s been way too hot for me in the garden so I’ve done very little out there but this week I have been getting into my shade houses and tidying those up. Mr T has been looking after the gardens though so they are all doing pretty well. Apart from the asparagus bed which I managed to kill off by mulching it with sugar cane. Sugar cane is pretty good at stopping water evaporating from the soil, but it’s also good at stopping the rain from getting into the soil, so my asparagus basically didn’t have any water for a good few months. Ah well, I think one or two crowns survived and I’ll get some more when I can.

With the help of Mr T I rejigged my stall. It’s got a lovely nice long shelf that sits on the fence and means I can have some work space while I’m tending to the plants. The next thing I want to do is get another sign and put some shade cloth over at least some of it. I also attached some trays to the table which means that the plant pots have a more even surface and aren’t constantly falling over.

Other than that we painted our lounge room and I’ve been getting everything ready for back to school for the kids. Oh and we are all now vaccinated with at least the first dose, the teens have had two doses and Mr T and I are fully vaxxed and boosted.

Ooops 4th Feb and still haven’t posted this. Better do that now. A couple of nice things that finished off the month were being interviewed by someone from The Guardian about the rise of urban honesty stalls; and one of my fellow Green Bums (friends that collaborate on the Green Bums FB page) has also started a plant stall over in Stafford! 😁 Ok better get this posted….

December 2021

Ah December – end of school for the year, then two weeks later Christmas and then that weird 26th – 31st period where everyone seems to lose track of time. Or maybe that’s just me. I’m writing this on the 20th so only 5 sleeps to go until Christmas Day. This year we are going to my sister & brother-in-law’s house for lunch which will be lovely, and then Mr T and the two younger kids are headed up to Bribie to his mums place for a few days.

It’s the 22nd now – I keep losing my computer to my daughter so writing this in bits at a time. It’s been a huge year with all four kids at school – my youngest in prep and eldest in grade 12. I knew it was going to be hard but the other two threw in a few extra challenges just to keep me on my toes. Lots of executive functioning going on, and when you have ADHD that is doubly exhausting. About the end of November I really started to feel the exhaustion and burn out so decided to start doing the bare minimum and focusing on rest. And it is working. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I just have to remember I’m still in the tunnel, I need to keep resting to get out the other side properly.

So now it is the 31st. My daughter now has a computer of her own so I can actually reclaim mine! I decided to take a break from doing my honesty stall, propagating, and pretty much everything for this week. I have been doing some things around the house but also being careful not to overdo it. I really like this not being completely exhausted feeling. I’m at a regular level of tired. One thing that happened was my gp tested my cholesterol levels and told me they are way too high. We agreed I’d try diet and lifestyle modification for 3 months and then retest to see if I need to take meds. As much as the timing sucked for Christmas day it did give me a good nudge to look at my less than ideal diet. I come from the UK so doing things like soaking bread in the drippings off a roast is normal (and extremely yummy). I actually have a good memory of my mum and I doing just that and giggling like school girls. And I am a big fan of pate, salami, cheese, chips, and lots of other foods that are really not great for cholesterol levels, and don’t eat enough fibre which I’ve learned is important for your body to get rid of cholesterol. Also the relationship with carbs is interesting because from what I have read if you eat too many carbs it encourages your body to produce more cholesterol so you need to watch that.

I decided I didn’t want to make my diet restrictive so instead of just cutting out things, I’ve been finding replacements. So snacking on mixed nuts, bhuja mix, popcorn, and vege chips (because sometimes I miss the crunch of potato chips), and I’m still eating red meat but smaller portions and we are watching how we cook it. I made a lamb ragu the other day and I drained so much fat out of the sauce. And when we have tacos I just have a little cheese and skip the sour cream.

I’ve been using My Fitness Pal to help me record what I’ve been eating. And now that I am not eating all the things I mentioned above I have had many days where I am not eating enough calories at all. And I really struggle to get enough protein. So my focus for the next little while is going to be getting that balance right. Unfortunately I can’t eat yogurt, but I’m going to try and make cheese (labne) with it because I think that will go down well.

In other news we adopted a puppy. My youngest named him Ruffles. We got him on Christmas Eve – I think his foster mum wanted to get him to his new home for Christmas. He was 13 weeks when we got him, and was rescued at 2 weeks from an outback pound. He is a Border Collie cross – dad is most likely an Australian Cattle Dog but not sure. He’s an intelligent little pup and got lovely manners, and he’s encouraging me to get walking which I need to do. I want to get back to running eventually, but for now walking is best.

And of course because it’s NYE I am thinking of all the work possibilities for next year. I am very keen to continue with the VA work, and maybe get some more hours of that, but I don’t think I’ll aim for more than 5 – 10 hours per week. That way I have time to dedicate to my family, my honesty stall, and crafting, without rushing around. I like not rushing and having time to rest. Probably my main goal for 2022 is resting more. I haven’t been doing much in the garden at all. Watering, moving plants into the shade house and taking photos is about it.

So I guess that’s it for 2021! What a year. And I haven’t even mentioned Covid yet, but I don’t want to forget. We have just finished the second year of the pandemic. And we were in such a good spot in November, the Qld borders have been shut a lot this year so we haven’t had many cases at all, and those that did pop up we went into snap lockdowns for a few days. I’ve been impressed by how the Qld government has handled it. And then just before the Qld borders were due to open the new Omicron varient started spreading. And it has spread so fast. The borders still opened, and requirements for entry seem to have been relaxed. It seems the plan now is to rely on vaccinations, boosters, people doing the right thing and wearing masks and distancing. Close contacts have been redefined from anyone in the same place to people that have spent 4 hours with the person. So the locations on the Qld tracking app are not being updated to the Qld health website. People are starting FB groups so that people wanting to know where the positive cases are occurring can find out. Very important if you are unvaccinated, elderly, immunocompromised or anxious. I think 2022 is going to be an interesting year, and hopefully we see covid turn into a manageable virus and some kind of end to the pandemic.

What happened to November?

(AKA November 2021 Update)

Well it’s the first of December and I completely missed doing a November update. Honestly this time of year always feels like a rollercoaster where I’m just hanging on for dear life. November was when my first born finished year 12, had his formal, graduation and first driving lesson. I’ve been taking kids to paediatrician and psychologist appointments, taxiing my eldest two around a lot as their dad is very unwell, and I did two weeks of part time Virtual Assistant work (15hrs per week) which was fantastic but in hindsight probably a few more hours than is ideal for me. So it was a hectic month!

I haven’t been gardening very much – once it started to heat up at the end of October I remembered how much I suffer in the heat & humidity and how in previous years I’ve started to dislike being in the garden when it is too hot/humid. So rather than push through and “just do it” I am going to honour that part of me, let myself stay cool, and the garden can rest over summer. As you can see below, I’ve started to pull plants out and we will dig in some compost, and sow green manure for a cover crop.

One of our garden beds that’s about to be cleared and composted

Choosing not to garden over summer got me thinking about more about the whole idea of self-sufficiency – it’s practicality and whether it is actually a good idea for everyone to try and be self-sufficient. I think it’s probably better to aim for self-sufficiency as a community, rather than as individuals. There’s reasons for thinking this (resources used, carbon footprint, available time in the modern world, etc) but I’m a bit too tired to think coherently about it just now. Maybe I will come back and revisit the topic sometime. But certainly for my situation it makes more sense to support local farmers / growers for some produce; and for pretty much all summer produce when I find the garden too hot. So I think for the next couple of months we will only aim to be self sufficient in fresh herbs, and I will make sure that I support local farmers the rest of the time.

Fortunately my potting bench is in one of the shade houses so I can continue with my propagation over summer! So I am still getting out into the garden for that 🙂 Propagating plants, and now selling them on my honesty stall, is bringing me a lot of joy. My stall has been garnering a lot of positive feedback that has been so nice to hear; and of course the sales are pretty cool too. 😉 I do have some lovely customers! I also donated 2 trays of gazanias to a local primary school which was fun. Gazanias spread well, make a nice ground cover and don’t require maintenance, so they should be useful.

One project that Mr T completed in November was to remove the rest of the white gravel from around the pond, put in more pavers and plant some native violet. I have to say it’s looking pretty good! I’ll take another photo once all the violet has grown in.

I think that about covers November! Other than having to constantly tell a couple of spiders “my shade house, not yours!” as I break their webs in order to get to my plants. 😂

Oh and my current crochet project – a big floor / couch cushion. I did make one already but decided I needed another. I keep meaning to make some items to sell, but get distracted with things I want for myself…. or the kids…. or friends…

October 2021 Update

Well here we are almost at the end of October – this month seems to have flown by pretty quickly. I guess that happens at this time of year. There has been lots going on, but I can’t for the life of me think what it is in any coherent way. Term 4 started and my son is doing his final exams. I feel like I’m just as nervous about them as he is! And he’s my eldest so of course I’m all emotional about my baby finishing school!

What else has been happening … I’m going to have to look back on my FB pages I think! Ah yes, my San Marzano tomatoes… Well I am just about to rip them out. After taking for ever to actually produce anything every tomato either succumbed to blossom end rot, had something nibble it or it was struck by fruit fly.

Will I try again? Yes. But I’m going to sow the seeds in early Autumn and get them started in a green house situation before planting them. Actually I might experiment and sow some in March, some in April, some in May and see which works the best. Apparently when planting out tomatoes you can plant them right up to their seed leaves as they will develop roots along their stems which makes them stronger, so I will do that as well. For now I have some Mini Amish tomatoes coming up that have self seeded so I will see if they produce anything.

Other than the tomatoes everything else has been growing along fine. I thought the pak choi I put in was all going to get eaten, but turns out if you plant enough there is enough to share with the garden critters 😉 The zucchini and beans have produced well, although I put too many zucchini plants in (we really don’t need more than 1 or 2) and so many just rotted before I was able to pick them. The zucchini plants died with the recent heavy rain so I will take those out and put in the two seedlings that I prepared earlier.

The asparagus hasn’t done much so far which is a shame, we’ve had a few small spears come up but we normally have enough to harvest for dinner at this point. Hopefully something will happen soon! And after I harvested the garlic last month I sowed some kidney bean seeds but none of them have come up! Even the ones I sowed in a punnet didn’t appear – well one did but that’s it. I remember I had given up on them last time before they appeared as well so you never know.

I’ve got some beautiful flowers around the place, and my foliage plant bed at the side of the house is starting to look quite nice too. I was taken by surprise the other morning – I went outside to have a wander around the garden and saw a flower that was stunning but I didn’t recognise it at all! Turns out it was the walking iris that has been here since we moved in, I have just never seen it flower before.

Our water tank ran out of water this month but then over the past week and a bit we have had lots of rain and it’s full again! We also had lots of water in the buckets and tubs that I left out so instead of wasting it I grabbed the mini water tank that’s been sitting around the side for about a year and manually filled it up. I used a towel to try and filter as much dirt and stuff out as possible and I managed to pretty much half fill it – so that 50 litres I can use to water all the plants I’m propagating before I even need to touch the tank water. I was pretty proud of that idea! The tank is destined to be installed to catch rain water from our courtyard roof, but I think I might get another just so I can manually fill it.

Talking of propagating – I’ve been doing a lot of that with pretty good success. I’ve actually started to label things, and write the dates of when I pot them up so I can keep track of how long I have grown them on for. I like to keep them for a few weeks before putting them on my honesty stall, just to make sure that they are growing well.

My honesty stall is going really well and I am loving it. I get so much enjoyment out of putting plants out, tending to the stall and even seeing it as I drive in and out of the house. It’s been well received by the local community as well which makes me feel rather proud 😊



I need to update my sign though. I mention produce on the sign because originally my aim was to put any excess produce on the stall but I am finding the logistics of that a bit hard. Things aren’t going to last well on the stall in the heat and if no one picks them up relatively quickly they will just end up as food waste, which defeats the purpose! So I think instead I will share any excess via the Homegrown 4178 & 4179 Facebook page.

I also want to modify the stall in some way so that I can put shade plants on there and possibly the craft items I make. It’s easier to sell things that way – otherwise I never get around to taking photos, listing items, etc. I’m not sure exactly how to do it – for the craft stuff I imagine I’d need some kind of cupboard type set up or even a perspex box with lid. Alternatively I could have a garage/craft sale every so often… that might work even better. I’ll have a think on that because in a way it is good to keep the stall simple.

The other thing that has kept me busy this month has been the virtual admin work I’ve been doing. I was covering for someone on leave and it was great to have that 2 weeks of work coming into the end of year period. I am hoping to keep doing some VA work in the future because I’ve found that it really suits the way I want to work. At the same time I want to make sure that I leave myself time to do what I want to without having to rush around. I’ve done enough of that over the years. I like moving much more slowly now 😉

September 2021 Update

It’s been quite a busy & successful month around here. I harvested my garlic and for the first time growing it I was very happy with the results. I also gave growing potatoes in buckets a go and that was also a success. I will definitely continue with both those crops and apply what I have learned. Something I just discovered from the Facebook group South East Qld Urban Food Growers is that we can grow potatoes all year round here! I find that rather exciting given that potatoes are my absolute favourite.

My stall is going really well and I am enjoying it. It is lovely to put the results of my propagating out on display and then to have people want to purchase my plants and take them home makes me very happy! I also sold my first craft items which was exciting, and I have some virtual admin work on the horizon which is fantastic. One of the aims of my honesty stall and crafting is to create a bit of income working with my neurodiversity, not against it, and the casual VA work seems to work well for me too.

My flower garden is doing well – and the Pandorea is starting to cover the fence nicely. I wonder if I’ll actually get any flowers on it this year! I added a couple more planters with petunias in them. The purple petunia in the flowerbed looks lovely but it does take over a bit! I’m still not convinced about keeping the ivy geranium (top left), I normally like them but it just looks a bit straggly. Although maybe it just needs a good prune. And the sun jewels/baby sunrose (middle) isn’t really doing much so I might replace those. Maybe with the purple petunia!

Last weekend I finally cleaned the pond out – it was overgrown with frogbit and algae so I removed all of that and culled the Nardoo, emptied it out as much as possible and scrubbed the sides. I need to get some more cherry shrimp and see if I can get the balance right.

And that big pot of gazanias (below middle) is due to be divided up and the pot moved – it’s right in the way for access to the hose. I’m going to do it bit by bit though because last time I pulled the lot out and it took forever to repot (mainly because I don’t want to “waste” any plants so propagate even the tiniest bits). Plus I have some yellow flower gazania to do first. And I have a birds nest fern that I rescued a while ago (below right) that has come back to life and needs attending to. It looks like it has divided into a two or three ferns which would be rather cool if I can manage to get them all growing.

So lots good things happening at the homestead!

One thing I haven’t been overly impressed with is my San Marzano tomatoes. I know I stuffed up with the planting time – I was aiming to grow them over winter but planted them a bit too late so they didn’t do anything until it warmed up again. And even then they haven’t seemed to do too much. I’ve already noticed one drop and look like it was eaten at the end, and on that last photo there looks to be some kind of blemish. I’m sure there’s things I could do to protect them, but I have to admit I like plants that are low maintenance! The Mini Amish tomatoes didn’t need anything. I have some of those and Red Fig tomatoes growing in pots so at least I have those if the San Marzano ones turn out to be a fail.

What else… the coriander has gone to seed, but that’s ok because I want to try and collect the seed and the root. The bay tree has got lots of new healthy looking growth which is awesome. I love fresh bay leaves. And the zucchini has gone ballistic. I think I put three in and really only need two for us.

I just swapped some zucchini, curry leaves, kaffir lime leaves and dill for several pieces of turmeric. I haven’t grown turmeric before, I’m going to grow it in a pot so it’s not taking up garden space and I don’t have to dig it up to harvest it. I was originally thinking I’d put produce on my stall but it doesn’t stay good quality out there. I’ve found a facebook group for Homegrown produce so listing it on there and only putting out when I know someone wants it, or organising a swap, will be a better way to go I think.

Oh – one thing we need to do is fix up the net on the netted bed – the way it is at the moment it’s a bit awkward to use and doesn’t actually stop anything so I’ve just been leaving it open. But everything is getting eaten by caterpillars, grasshoppers and other critters. I’d like to encourage birds to the yard which would help, but unfortunately we have an outdoor cat, and there’s several others in the neighbourhood. Mind you we found a diamond python on our woodpile and if it gets bigger maybe the cat will need to watch out!

Potatoes

Dutch Cremes and King Edwards

A couple of years ago (well 7 to be exact) we decided to have a go growing potatoes. When I was growing up we had a big potato bed and would end up with huge hessian sack full of potatoes. We didn’t have the space for something like that but I figured it would be nice to try growing a few.

Mr T came up with the idea of having part of the garden bed adjustable so it could grow upwards with the potatoes. Clever fella.

We planted some seed potatoes in June and then in October harvested these

That’s probably not too bad for 4 plants, but it seemed like a lot of work and time that the garden bed couldn’t be used. So we didn’t grow potatoes again. Until this year.

This year I decided to try something different. Potatoes in tubs! I was going to use grow bags but this seemed even easier. I got the idea from the people at Tullamore Farm (they are on Facebook, check them out) as they plant potatoes in 20l food grade buckets with drainage holes drilled into them. They stagger plant from around March through to September, which would mean they are harvesting from June/July through to Dec/Jan. Growing in buckets has the advantage that you can just tip over the bucket rather than having to dig, and you aren’t using up valuable garden space if that is at a premium.

I have to admit that we didn’t use food grade tubs, I was impatient and just went and bought cheap tubs. But after doing a bunch of reading I decided the risk from leached plastic was pretty low. I was able to utilise a bit of garden behind the trampoline and next to the water tank so that was another benefit of growing in tubs.

The other day I noticed that the tops of the first lot I planted had started to die off. So today I dragged the tub over near the compost bin and tipped it out.

Ok so maybe not a huge harvest but that is just from the first tub and I have several things I will do differently next time.

  • Source food grade tubs because I think they will be easier to manoeuvre
  • Put in more drainage holes – I think I lost a few potatoes to rotting because the mix was quite wet.
  • Choose a better spot because while they were nicely out of the way, getting in to them was a bit of a pain. So better access needed for watering and topping up the soil/mulch.

Working life

As always my experiences with neurodiversity (in particular ADHD and Autism) are mine and I don’t claim to speak for anyone else.

I really had no idea what I wanted to do when I left school, but I was pretty good with computers so I went to uni and did that. I graduated and still didn’t really know what I wanted to do so decided to do Honours and then started a PhD. The PhD was a big fail due to a few reasons but basically I decided I never wanted to work with computers again (that didn’t last 😂).

I took a bit of time off to try and figure out what I did want to do and got into gardening. I decided that doing a Certificate of Horticulture would be a good idea since I seemed to enjoy gardening. I worked in a plant nursery for a while and then another horticulturist friend and I set up a gardening business. That was fun for a while but it always amused me when people would say “oh what a lovely job for 2 girls” as we’d just finished moving a ton of mulch, pruned some rather large shrubs and generally worked up a right sweat. What did they think? We just went around picking flowers or something? Anyway, the novelty of that wore off and I decided that it was too much hard work (and in the hot sun) for too little pay and I should go back to computing. My husband at the time had other ideas and we ended up in Denver for 3 years and I wasn’t allowed to work. That was 2000 and was a fun adventure … stories for another time.

When we got back in 2003 I was pregnant with my first son and as I wanted to be a stay-at-home mum thoughts of work went on the back burner. As it turns out when he was about a couple of years old I started an online retail business selling cloth nappies and various other baby goods. That was a lot of fun, I loved helping out other mums understand modern cloth nappies. MCN were new to Australia at that time, and the only ones available were made by other stay-at-home mums, so it was awesome to be supporting each other and I made some good friends through doing that. I continued with my online business until a little while after I separated from my first husband. It was a bit hard continuing while a single mum but also I felt the need to earn a more steady income as I had 2 sons by that time.

So I ended up working in a tobacconist and gift shop. I have never smoked in my life so it was a little bizarre, but I did enjoy working there. Maybe because when customers are buying their smokes they are always happy when you pass them over 😉 I really enjoyed the customer interactions, getting to know the regulars, and helping people find the right gift for whatever the occasion was.

But I was a casual and I started thinking about trying to earn a full time income so I could actually get somewhere financially. I got a job with a health insurer, which I thought would be good because it’s helping people, which I love doing. I made sure that the interviewers understood that I had primary age kids so I needed to be able to leave at a certain time, etc. Unfortunately that job didn’t last long because when you have ADHD it can be really hard to focus and remember what people say; and when you are trying to explain health insurance to someone you need to be able to remember what their situation is. Of course at the time I didn’t realise I had ADHD, I just figured I sucked at remembering stuff. Also I was always in a rush – rush to drop kids at school, then get the train and get to work on time, and remind everyone I have to leave right on time so couldn’t help close up the shop (that doesn’t go down too well) and then rush to catch the train and get back to afterschool care before that closes. And then rush to get dinner, etc, etc. Way too much pressure for me.

Fortunately at the same time an IT consulting company decided to offer me a job where I could work from home, flexible hours, etc. That sounded great! And it was…. for a little while. But then there were the trips away to work on location – thankfully I had a new partner (Mr T) by this time so I was able to be away from the kids while he parented them. Also one of the features of ADHD is that once you get into the swing of things you don’t want to stop – or at least that is how it is for me. I would end up starting to work and then getting annoyed if the kids interrupted me, I didn’t want to stop to make dinner or do the bedtime routine, etc. I think it’s because I know that if I stop then it will take so much effort to get going again but I didn’t know at the time I had ADHD, I just thought I was really bad at separating work from home. So not an ideal situation in the long term at all.

Now that Mr T was around and we could live with me having a part time income, I decided to go back to the tobacconist and gift shop. That was good for a while but unfortunately, for whatever reason, I had a rather public breakdown in the middle of the shop. In hindsight I think it was an Autistic shutdown. Various stressful things were going on at the time and it was like my brain just went – nope, not working anymore. Thankfully I was with a very kind person that had some experience with anxiety and he helped to talk me through it enough for me to drive home. I remember standing at home and just really not knowing what to do. Go inside? Stay outside? Lie down? It was pretty scary. Luckily for me Mr T was at home and took care of me. A few weeks after that I discovered I was pregnant with my third child (born 2012) and three years later had my fourth (born 2016).

Once my youngest was in kindy I started thinking again about work. I tried to think of something that I was going to be able to do during school hours, holidays off, and involved helping people. I decided that Teacher Aide might fit the bill pretty well. So I did a certificate, and then a diploma. As part of the study you do 100 placement hours. I absolutely loved doing things like prepping resources for the classroom, helping the teacher, working with the kids and helping them in one-on-one situations. However, again having ADHD meant that it was really hard for me to remember instructions from the teacher and relay them to the kids, and of course it was noisy and hot in the classrooms which was not great with my sensory issues.

So what were the employment alternatives? Honestly I was struggling to think of anything. Nothing seemed to be a great fit for my choices when it comes to parenting, or for someone with unmedicated ADHD. I applied for some retail jobs that said flexible hours, but what they really meant was flexible for the employer – you had to be available all hours. But I really like having the time to walk my little kids into school in the morning and chat with the teachers if it’s needed. I like having a morning that isn’t rushed – well apart from the 15 mins before we leave to go to school, that always seems rushed no matter how organised I am! And I like picking them up straight from school in the afternoons, and checking if they are ok and again being able to chat to the teacher.

And then a friend offered me some work doing some admin for her in her small business. And I loved it. I was helping her concentrate on her actual work, rather than the boring admin tasks; it was work that I could do easily and when I chose rather than having to be at a particular place at a particular time; it didn’t require any “special clothes” and because it’s all done online I can work from wherever I want to. I don’t have to be in a brightly lit, noisy office – perfect for someone that has sensory issues! I’m not sure I’d heard the term Virtual Assistant before that job, but it is just about the perfect job for me.

There was a bit of a period at the end of 2020, start of 2021, where my VA work was scarce so I started selling plants. Propagating plants is a hobby of mine, and our yard was starting to get a bit crowded so I started my honesty stall around June 2021. I am rather happy with the progress of my stall. It has been a great success – more successful than I expected really. It allows me to contribute a little financially but mostly it has provided a lovely connection to community, both local and across Australia through my Facebook and Instagram pages/accounts. I am very grateful for the support I have received ❤ My plant sales (and a few craft sales) plus my VA work allows me to earn a living in a way that supports my neurodiversity rather than having to fight it. I feel very lucky to have found these opportunities at last.


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An extra word about medications – I do not take medications for my ADHD. I am in no way anti-medication, I take meds for other things, I just prefer to see if I can manage my hyperactive brain with other methods first by working with, rather than fighting against, myself.


Garlic!

My first time planting garlic and it came up nicely.

On April 1st 2021 I planted some garlic. Glen Large, Italian Pink and Elephant Garlic to be exact. It was my first time growing it so I wasn’t sure how it would go. I knew that it’s a heavy feeding crop so I figured the bed where our compost bins are would be a good spot! Next year I think I will plant them along the back of the bed though, rather than the corner because they do take up the space for several months.

The above photos were taken in July and I was thinking wow there’s so much greenery! But it was grass 😂. Next time I’ll keep on top of the weeding a bit more!

I noticed in August that the tops were really starting to die off and I started thinking it might be time to harvest soon. I’d read that it takes garlic 6 months which meant that technically it shouldn’t be ready until the 1st October, but then I found something that said the best thing to do if you aren’t sure is to move some of the soil from around a bulb without disturbing the roots and see how it is going. You can always move the soil back if it’s not ready.

So this morning (September 4th) I decided to do that. I was a bit worried that I’d leave them too long and they would rot with the rain we’ve been having, or that they would split. I really didn’t want my first experiment to fail! The bulb I checked looked pretty good so I decided to harvest them all! Unfortunately this impulsivity meant I also harvested the elephant garlic – apparently that can take up to 2 years before it’s ready to harvest 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Whoops! Live and learn I guess!

Freshly harvested garlic

Now I just need to read up on how to store it 😁😁

Things to do next time – plant along the back of the bed, be a bit more regular with the feeding and weeding, leave smaller bulbs in for longer if they don’t look ready. And don’t harvest the elephant garlic at the same time!

August 2021 Update

I can’t believe it’s almost the end of August. It’s been such a strange year. On the one hand it’s been quite hard / exhausting with the Covid situation getting so much worse in Australia, advocating for one of my kids at school to get the support she needs, dealing with my own mental health, perimenopause, and learning how to manage my neurodiversities. But on the other hand I am really loving what I have done with Bayside Homestead and my honesty stall so far; I have other opportunities opening up to me as well, which is pretty exciting; and I am making some good progress with learning to live with the way I operate rather than feeling I need to fit into someone else’s idea of how the world should work. So it’s all very mixed emotions around here!

Anyway… what’s been happening? Well garden wise we tidied up the herb garden, I mulched the asparagus bed, pulled out the beans I had growing in the netted bed and planted some pak choy and daikon there, and I pulled out the remains of the Mini Amish tomatoes and put in some beans, artichoke, turnip, carrots, and a capsicum in there. I need a name for that bed, for now it is Bed A. In the top half I have carrots and San Marzano tomatoes – I’m not sure how good an idea it was to put carrots in with the tomatoes, but never mind. Live and learn.

One of the things I’ve been trying to do is narrow down exactly which vegetables and herbs we want to grow. and then figure out how to have a relatively good supply of those. I have a tendency to read a list of what can be grown and want to plant everything. But there’s really no point if a) we don’t eat it or b) it’s not really worth the garden space to grow it. I’m still learning but so far the list is: zucchini, eggplant, rosemary, thyme, oregano, dill, taragon, basil, chili, asparagus, beans, snow peas, capsicum, tomatoes, carrots, spring onions, chives, spinach, rocket, asian greens (pak choy, bok choy, etc).

I’ve also got a crop of garlic in that should be ready to be harvested next month I think. It’s an experiment to see if we get a reasonable crop and if it is worth the space/time or not. I put some mesh down to stop the cat from sitting there but I think something has been getting underneath it and digging as there is a hole next to a couple of the plants. But what on earth would want to eat the garlic (other than us)?

Apart from gardening I’ve been crocheting in the evenings. This is one of the baskets I made and it’s actually gone off to a customer! *squee* I’m nervous to see what she things of it – I think it should arrive by next week.


And with it being winter I cooked one of my favourites, Pulled Pork. I am a big fan of recipes where you can do one cooking session and then get several serves to put away into the freezer for times when you can’t be bothered to cook. It’s much quicker and cheaper than takeaway! I used to cook it on the oven but I tried it in the slow cooker this time and that makes it even easier and cheaper as you aren’t heating up a big oven for several hours.

Pulled Pork

One of my very favourite recipes is for pulled pork. I first cooked this about a year ago and I wish I had tried it earlier in my life. It is cheap, easy to cook, and with the richness of the sauce a little goes a long way. I always make more than we need so it can go in the freezer for those times when I can’t be bothered to cook. I’m planning on making sure my kids know how to make it when they move out and need budget cooking options! I should really have a nice photo of the finished dish to put at the top, but I always start eating before I remember to take a photo!

There are lots of different recipes of course but I quite like this one as you cook the pork and the sauce separately. I find that this makes the pork quite versatile as you can team it with different flavours as you want to. Apparently pork shoulder is the best cut to use, but I actually prefer to use pork leg; either way I will pick one up when it’s on special and keep it in the freezer until I’m in the mood to cook it.

This recipe is based on an article I read from Matt Preston, which I can’t find for the life of me now, but basically for 500g pork I put 1 tablespoon each of salt, brown sugar, and smoked paprika in a bag (or container) and shake to mix. If I have garlic powder on hand I’ll add that in too. I often cook 1.5kg to 2kg pieces and adjust the quantities for that. First step is to remove the rind from the pork, and if you want remove any excess fat. I tend to leave quite a lot of fat on and then remove it at the end. Rub the sugar/spice mix over the pork and put in the fridge for at least an hour, but overnight if you can.

Pork with the dry rub on it, ready to go in the fridge overnight

There are a couple of ways I have cooked this from here – oven or slow cooker. The slow cooker is easier and probably more forgiving, but the oven method works well too. If you are using the oven heat it to 150C, place the pork onto a rack in a roasting tin, a bit of water underneath (maybe half a cup or so) and then cover with alfoil. Cook for 1 hour per 500g. If you are using the slow cooker, place the pork into the slow cooker and cook on slow for 6 to 8 hours. It’s hard to overcook the pork, but it’s worth checking after 6 hours as some slow cookers do seem to cook hotter than others.

In the slow cooker ready to go!

Once the pork is cooked remove it from the roasting dish or slow cooker and set aside to rest. If you are cooking it in the oven it can be worth checking it from time to time to make sure that the juices are not burning in the pan – you may need to add more water if they are. You want these juices to add to the sauce.

The cooked pork, it will be fork tender.


This is how I do the sauce – it’s based on an American style BBQ sauce but I have adjusted quantities to suit our tastes (mainly less cayenne and I think I cut the vinegar down too). In a pan I mix 1/4 cup cider vinegar, ½ cup yellow (American) mustard, 1/3 cup ketchup, 1/3 cup brown sugar, 1 garlic clove, crushed, ½ tsp salt, ½ tsp cayenne, ¼ tsp pepper and bring it to the boil, turn down and then simmer for 5 – 10 mins. Add any juices from the oven dish/slow cooker and bring back to the boil.

The cooked pork and the pan full of sauce


Once the pork has rested for a little while (which really depends on how impatient I am) grab two forks and start pulling it apart and shredding it. How fine or coarse you do this is up to you. I then add a few spoonfuls of the sauce and mix it through to coat the meat. I keep the rest of the sauce separate so that people can add more to their taste.

One of the reasons I love this recipe is that after that one cooking session we had dinner that night for 2 adults and a teenager (equal to another 2 adults really) and then about 6 containers to put in the freezer. We have it with baked potatoes, mix the pork with some salsa and make tacos, use it on pizza, sandwiches and rolls, use it as a pie filling… so many options!